The Grand Life

Dear blog, its been long since i last write but i will try to write every month from now onwards just to keep writer in me alive.  So it’s that time of the year when i start to rewind, revive, review and realign my year as my birthday/my new age is about to start. Well I can gratefully say this year has been the most beautiful, magical and loved year of my life. Last few years has given me enough lemon that this year added enough sugar to turn into most radiant lemonade.  So Birthday!!! One year older but world changed this year. Entire life changed, country changed, priorities changed and yes just cause I got married.   Well last year I wished for this change as I knew no amount of preparation can taught me to handle it until I live it and do it my way. But I am just extremely grateful for how it happened and the way universe has blessed me with my soulmate and fulfilled my every wish along with beautiful surprises ( London trip ). I have moved to USA , if someone coul...

Its not ONE DAY, its about Every Single Day. Because when you reach the ‘one day’ it is not a very fancy day and even it is, you will always remember the bad times because one day’s happiness will always try to justify and osmosis to your life’s happiness and when it remind you of those bitter days you get filled with melancholy and hence the power of those dark times start the reverse osmosis into your current happiness and your ‘one happy day’ is not able to satisfy your whole life’s happiness and make you feel successful. So, what to do every single day to be happy and successful? Live!  On starting note, not a single day is same in your life incase you are not a robot. You wakeup at different times, newspaper has different news, you wear different clothes, you eat different things, you saw lots of different things or atleast not in the same duration or sequence. Or even if you do the same stuff atleast the cells inside you changes each day. There are billion cells in your body ...

Do you have guilt in your free time that you are losing out on some exciting things or you are not doing enough or not pushing yourself or it is not right time to chill as there is lot to do? Maybe the only time we feel less guilt is in night or even midnight because at that time it is advised to rest and then we feel that this is our time, we can binge, read or can do all our favourite things and then until the sleep hits us hard only that time we decide to sleep. The very next day begins with coffee to stay us awake and energetic and that’s how we deprive sleep and affect our sleep cycle and stuck in loop of revenge bedtime procrastination. Well, the cycle goes on till weekend and when we finally get those two days for us then this urge to go out as we have to be cool and party hard or self care and other important things of life. And Yeah, if you are not enjoying what you do in work then this side hustle comes in for which we have to work extra on weekdays and on weekends as this ...

World runs by the people who are in power, who have power and who know how to use their power. While the rest ones just accepts their limited power and continue to live in expectations, hopes and beliefs.   Maybe there are two kind of people: Soft and Sour.  Soft people are like Sponge. You can press them, they will absorb all things, will clean all the mess and in the end gets back into their usual shape and size since they are built that way but the world thinks they are spineless and nothing affects them. Sour people are like Chopper. They will squeeze out the juice and cut feelings of others while showing instant results to prove how great they are but the sharp knifes are not everyone’s strength. Women all around the world are still struggling to get their rights, equal power, infact after thousand years now the other half of the Homosapiens of this planet is getting to know that she bleeds with hundred of hormonal changes each month for 40 years of her life span and...

 Where are all the happy endings? Is it only happening in the Korean Series and Rom Coms while every other series never wanted to have a proper ending because how will they begin the next episode.  Why our generation is soo doomed and mentally frustrated because where we can find a happy story? The news is full of uncertain future where nothing good seems happening in upcoming future. Everyone is either busy in worrying about climate change or how they can make their dreams come true in the world full of competition. I wonder when the human first come on to this planet they might have never thought that one day population will get decreased not by pandemic but by choice, people are soo chased away in catching the bubbles of happiness that bursts as soon as we reach them, compassion towards fellow species become a rare quality and our mind can get hurt by our own thoughts. Technology is rising soo fast. That we all blame it as the reason who brings this emotional downfall but e...

Hi Life, let me be straight forward to you. You are not a rollercoaster because a rollercoaster ends in few seconds after giving big high and drops.  You are not a marathon because marathon has a length limit while your length can never be predicted.  You are not a trophy to achieve for which everyone participate in rat race their entire time. You are not list of goals that has to attained, to mark you as successful. You are not a coin that can be spend only once because we looted you each day in different ways. You are not a puzzle that is complicated as it depends on the terms you put us in.  Hi Life, I know you have magic because each day something changes.  You are just bundle of unexpected surprises that either made us happy or lament.  You are that book that has defined chapters but filled with undefined roles and situations. You are just 'everyday' as long as we breath and you stay with us.  What if, one day I come to the world after reading all the ...

For me, praying should be expressing your gratitude not showing your greed for more.  For me, dreaming means making aim with love and believing in them not just a goal which somebody told you to achieve to fit the category of being "Successful".  For me , if my startup impact even one person's life. I am successful and I have achieved what I want and why I started.  For me, adulting has been a dream but it's the most scariest part because you're no more protected from the evil part of the world.  For me, loving somebody means unconditional not trying your luck out with someone's emotions and playing with their heart just because you were adjusting too.  For me, alcohol and sex are the most overrated things as those are parts of life not the point of proof that you are adult now.  For me, the success is defined by only 2 things: happiness and peace of mind while all other things are just materialistic. For me, I like to be a giver not because there are diffe...

Why everything is good when we were a kid? Maybe we were so small to forget everything; those every fight, every fear, every problem or every scold we got we forget within in seconds. The pain gets healed within minutes. Laugh goes on with friends & those playtimes never get over. We got school work to do but eventually fun is always on our mind and that creativity never ended due to chart sheets, crayons, sketches, glues and lots of glitters. We used to paint our brightest futures with happiness, love, heart, and soul and never care about the hard work that it might require. Life was super smooth and slow because in every class we learned new things and that new skill makes us wonder about too many more new things as that we were not having this common sense by then to understand everything on our own. We were curious, creative and scientists. So, from that cutie-pies when we become this mature and sensible human being? Does Adolescence is the answer to the bridg...

Why the most different, weirdest person is most strangest in the society? Infact why the society wants all people to be perfect? What will be the fun left if all act, work, walk, eat, think, sleep just the same way? It's pretty ironic that humans create these definitions, explanations and rules for iconic societies which is all about etiquettes, perfections, formalities and showoffs but most of the homosapiens are not even close to those Utopia . Infact, above that we are pushing so hard and pulling everyone to be part of these " Ideal " world even if we have to kill or hurt someone due to that and  moreover doesn't matter how much our planet is bleeding because of it. Sometimes, when you see other creatures of the earth you say how lucky they are because they don't have to deal with this stress everyday, they don't have to act or behave in particular way. They might have responsibilities, duties to perform everyday but they don't have to fac...

My college life went like " GRAPES " : sour in beginning  then it became sweeter and now the Wine of these grapes will taste amazing as the time will pass away. After school every one has huge expectations from their college : Top college, best faculty, new BFFs, modern infrastructure, intercollege fests,  events, different clubs, societies,hostel life and a new level of freedom after school. Firstly, my college was not the top college infact it's moribund now in our engineering department. It has nice infrastructure but their construction never stopped. Actually, our auditorium was under construction from 2 years before I took admission at there and now after 4 years when I am passing out it still need 2 more years to be constructed. Clubs and societies are scarce at our building but the building of dental in front of us usually host best events. Some events happen at our place too but most of them get cancelled at last minute. The first 4 days at there passed l...

I guess the topic has its own irony. Ya, I get failed. I fall from the cliff again. The cliff of my own expectations, hopes and dreams. I am accepting my defeat instead of being embarrassed about it for my lifetime unlike last time. It's really funny that the world will push you always to see the brightest sides, the postivities and even more the success stories but no one ever tell you the failure stories. The stories of those millions people who tried and over tried but failed and the reason they tried is the story of that one person in those million people who get success. When we begin to dream what is that first thing we think in our heads? Undoubtedly, "living that dream". Next, we will go to Google and reading the success stories. Those stories will have passion, hardwork, determination and the "Success mantra" they felt for them. Later, marking those stories as inspirational, motivational and then trying to follow the similar pattern of success as ...

Naive not to mention I know I am a beginner, must have a big path to walk. I know I am an amateur, just understanding the things by heart. I know I am nobody, still trying to become somebody . I know things are not easy, but I will also not become that cheesy. From where should I begin story of my life? When at every instant refresh command advised. Confused with millions of things, But trillions of wishes make it more complicated, Until I touch the rock bottom and need it to be restarted. Is the map I am holding for life directions is right? Or should I focus on my destination more than the route I am taking? Are the things moving fast or am I slow? When everyone is achieving something and becoming virtuoso. And there I am standing in between them, still felt like naive. Should I hold my dreams or go for a fight? It's like mountain climb where mountain seems bigger than Everest. And whenever I check my position I am still at the base...